Showing posts with label laughter. Show all posts
Showing posts with label laughter. Show all posts

Wednesday, September 24, 2014

Thursday Tune Up of Laughter

We all need to laugh more, we need to enhance our attitude so that we find even the not so funny downright hilarious. Because everything in life that does not effect our emotion of sadness or grief can be overturned quickly with laughter.

Oh we must at times grieve and there will be sadness but in the end may we all turn around and quickly find our laugh again.


Not bad and pretty inexpensive as well


How true

Dreams are forever
Imagination truly shows no age
and laughter should always have a place in our day 


May you laugh much
May you love always
May you live in health
May your laughter bring you wealth


May you truly have the wisdom to make your laughter and love last 

May you smile and enjoy the journey along lifes path

and may always find your smile

even as I share this smile with you : )

Victor Yakin






Sunday, August 17, 2014

Monday Motivation and Focusing on the Present

The present moment at hand and to focus on the current task is often easier said than done.  We often look down the road well before the road has been traveled.  We want to find the end result sooner than it is often earned.

The time to focus is at each stage of the journey, not only so that the journey is completed but traveled well.


The task at hand deserves your focus
The present and your efforts now determine the results 
that will reward you in the future.


Focus on what you do have control of at this moment
don't focus on what others think or say
it is none of your business what others think of you anyway
that is on them not you


To loose sight of the end is not the goal, we must always look ahead
but the focus must be on the present moment but yet not get lost with our overall desired destination.


Truly whatever you focus on expands : )
Gratitude
your love
the power of a life well lived
joy
laughter

and the power of a simple smile

just like the one I share with you right now : )

Victor Yakin









Sunday, May 26, 2013

Quiet Reflection and Silent Adjustments




The day after your daughter spreads her wings and leaves the nest, the reflections, the adjustments.

"It was the best of times, it was the worst of times;
it was the age of wisdom, it was the age of foolishness;
it was the epoch of belief, it was the epoch of incredulity;
it was the season of light, it was the season of darkness;
it was the spring of hope, it was the winter of despair;
we had everything before us, we had nothing before us"
~ A Tale of Two Cities ~ Charles Dickens

A sigh let out and the fingers move across the keyboard as the last few days are reflected upon.  A single father of a 19 year old daughter reflects and ponders on the next hour.  The 19 yr old flies off to south east Texas to join her soon to be 17 year old brother and mother, a new chapter for unfolds.

I call it the best seat in the house the last 9 years, as I had the honor and privilege of being a father and watched her turn into a young, beautiful and smart woman.  

Both children I love deeply but my son grew up much of his young life with my ex-wife, mother of both.  He is also a young, handsome and smart teenager soon to be joining our armed forces and I am so very proud of him.  He celebrates his 17th birthday next Friday as his sister celebrated her 19th birthday 11 days ago here with me and friends.

The day was coming as she announced that she would be moving to Texas, I knew this for a few months.

I was filled with many emotions, sadness of course the most. I was starting the journey of the 5 stages of grief and I knew little how they would hit me as the months passed by.

I shared hockey games and dined with her and she stated "I wanted to see a hockey game and you took me to many."  I have a way of doing that.  

The day before she was to leave and the last day of her high school experience I picked her up at her job at the same elementary school that I enrolled her in all those years before.

She had the same stride and skip in her step as she did all those years ago just a little wider and faster.  I greeted her with flowers as I did on the day of her graduation last year. Last years bouquet red roses and baby breath and this year  yellow roses and flowers of purple and others that blended so well.  The yellow rose of Texas and her favorite colors blended in well.

The day was so very hard for me.  I had a heavy curtain of sadness as the final day was here.  I likened the feeling and describe it this way   A tall glass of water in a glass so clear that the water just hangs at the rim and a drop would cause it to overflow.  Well the day started with a storm of emotion and the storm poured down on my glass and overcame it did.  A storm that I knew was coming but was not prepared for.

How do you express the 9 years into words, flowers and a card can not do it, a stuffed dog in a gift bag can't do it.  No words at a restaurant over a meal are enough. Not nearly enough.

I gave all the advice I could think of.  

Be nice to your brother, be kind to others, listen to a potential boyfriend but watch his actions with even more attention. Those matter the most.  Don't every quit, don't let your smile fade and always laugh a little everyday.  Love always even when its hard.  Be filled with adventure, dream and watch those dreams come true with action and plans.  Stay hungry and stay foolish and let life unfold on your terms.  One final word always know that I love you.

The trip to the airport was hard but acceptance was starting to creep in and as I watched her board the plane I told her good bye, told her again I love you and lastly thank you for being my best friend and daughter.  Her wings spread as did the plane and on this chilly sunny day the plane taxied away and off into the sky.

I spoke with my ex her mom and we chatted with kindness and mutual respect as we often did.  I told her we both did a great job with both of our kids.  The are uniquely different and both are so very awesome, bright and good looking.  Both are kind and both have common sense and both have a unique way of getting through life.  A couple proud parents talking and reflecting as the plane heads west.

I pulled away from the parking lot, paid the parking fee and went east back to work as the silent adjustments unfold.

Do I still feel some sadness, sure I do but a sense of pride and a heart filled with love will allow that water to pour out into the past as I live for today and adjust for tomorrow.

May your quiet reflections and silent adjustments be filled with pride and love and a smile on your face.

God Bless and Smiles sent your way .

Victor V. Yakin

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Sunday, February 19, 2012

Spring Flowers ... coming soon ~ Quote of the Day ~ Video of the Day ~ Scripture of the Day : ) 02/19/12

Earth laughs in flowers.

: o ) Ralph Waldo Emerson

What is your favorite flower that you plan on planting or grooming this year?
Do you have a flower garden?  Do you have an indoor presentation of flowers?
The presence of flowers is a majestic and empowering image.
I like to think that the wild flowers that we see as we drive along the back roads are indeed the earth sharing laughter with us.
The quote by Emerson gives us excitement to plan our flower presentation to the world.
Spring is a month away.
The garden centers will be blooming soon.
My favorite flower?  Thats easy.
The Coneflower (color is not important) I just enjoy the flower as it stand out in the sun. May your garden blossom this spring/summer as winter comes to a close.
May the wind blow beauty in your life and fresh joyous smiles and laughter fill your world.
Smiles to you this day and everyday : )
Video of the Day


Scripture of the Day 
Song of Solomon 2 : 12 
The flowers appear on the earth; the time of the singing of birds is come, and the voice of the turtle is heard in our land;
Have a blessed day everyone :)
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Friday, February 17, 2012

Stretching our beliefs on Success ~ Quote of the Day ~ Video of the Day ~ Scripture of the Day : ) 02/17/12


"I would rather be ashes than dust.
I would rather that my spark should burn out in a
brilliant blaze than that it should be stifled by dry-rot.
I would rather be a superb meteor, every atom of me in
magnificent glow, than a sleepy and permanent planet.
The proper function of man is to live, not exist.
I shall not waste my days in trying to prolong them.
I shall use my time."
: 0 )  Jack London

Man was indeed designed to live, to make things, to care and to listen.  This quote speaks of that function and design.
Would we all not want to blaze a trail.
Leave behind some kind of legacy or improved social condition.
Maybe it indeed is just a garden that beautified our world.
Maybe we raised a child to do great things like be an awesome parent to their children.
Or maybe just maybe we want to make a difference in a big enough way that even just one life has breathed easier because we lived.
We created.  We designed.  We cared.  We loved.  We smiled.
Maybe just maybe Ralph Waldo Emerson had a point when we designed that work called success.
Enjoy your day and keep smiling as smiles are shared with you here today. : )
Video of the Day


Bible verse of the Day 
Proverbs 16: 7
 When a man’s ways are pleasing to the LORD, 
He makes even his enemies to be at peace with him.
Have a blessed day everyone :)
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Thursday, February 16, 2012

Grateful to be alive and Free (Are You?) ~ Quote of the Day ~ Video of the Day ~ Scripture of the Day : ) 02/16/12

I wish that life should not be cheap, but sacred.

  I wish the days to be as centuries, loaded, fragrant. 

: o )  Ralph Waldo Emerson


What a gift life is, each day to fill our heart and speech with gratitude that we are blessed to be alive and free.  

When you acknowledge that the gift of life is awesome and that you are blessed to be free something starts to happen.  The clouds that may be above your head, those dark clouds start to dissipate quickly.  The sun starts to slip through and warms your soul and spirit.

Your heart begins to soar and your mind begins to think not with just clarity but with purpose.

Imagine to live your day with a fragrant sense of gratitude and have your attitude begin to understand that all that truly changed was your focus and understanding.

Just a thought, why not for the next week try it.  No matter how bleak you think things are in your life.  Take a step back and acknowledge the gift of life and the awesome ability to be free.  Try it.  For a  week.  Each morning speak words of gratitude to the energy force that surrounds you and your family.  Give thanks, spoken thanks for life, for freedom and for wisdom to know that you have choices.

Choices to smile, to spread joy and to give laughter freely.

Will you try it for a week?  Today and for the next 6 days.  First thing in the morning and before bed.  Giving thanks, aloud and for anyone to hear your appreciation for life, freedom and choices to share that smile, that joy and laughter with ease.

May your week be blessed and may your smiles be shared and your joy be abundant.  : o )

Today and everyday : )

Video of the Day   



Scripture of the Day 

Therefore let us be grateful for receiving a kingdom that cannot be shaken, and thus let us offer to God acceptable worship, with reverence and awe

Hebrew 12:28 (ESV)

Have a blessed day everyone :)
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Friday, January 13, 2012

Quote of the day ~ Video of the Day ~ Scripture of the Day ~ On Luck and Cause and Effect : ) 01/13/12


Shallow men believe in luck.

Strong men believe in cause and effect.

: o ) Ralph Waldo Emerson

Imagine me using Emerson.... LOL

Ok you have to write about the power of luck and bad luck in ones life on Friday the 13th right.  So here goes.

First off ask yourself do you believe in cause and effect or do you believe in chance.
Luck from random actions or Luck from hard work and practice making things just turn out right.
So by now after all of my essays you must know my feeling right.
Cause and effect
Action and reaction
Two statements I believe in.
The high energy of laughter to improve a mood in a room and help others who may just need that laugh.  Action sharing some laughter reaction the whole state of emotion changes. Just like the power of a smile.  Just like it, you share a smile, the other sends one back just because they felt uplifted and inspired to share in the magic of the given smile.
Cause you wake up with a great nights sleep, full of energy, full of love for the live you have been given.  A blessing has been bestowed on you as you have just been given another moment of life.  A fresh 86,400 seconds await you and your the captain of the vessel that you guide along life's journey.  Pure magic awaits you.
The effect of the laughter, of the blessed day you just woke up to. Well its not luck, its the pure direction that you guide yourself with. The magic starts when you say, Thank You!
Spoke gratitude that says thank you for this day, this moment at this time I am grateful.  Pure magic awaits you. Today right now.
Not luck, not because you had a rabbits foot, no just because you prepared yourself for this moment.  This moment when you arose from a slumber, stepped out into this world and said thank you, how can I help, how can I make a difference.  Pure magic awaits you!
Will you take the time to make the magic work for another.
Your turn..... Welcome to your moment of magic
Smiles shared with you this day and every day!  Pure magic awaits! :)
Video of the day

Scripture of the day :

"Come now, you who say, “Today or tomorrow we will go into such and such a town and spend a year there and trade and make a profit”— yet you do not know what tomorrow will bring. What is your life? For you are a mist that appears for a little time and then vanishes. Instead you ought to say, “If the Lord wills, we will live and do this or that.”"

James 4:13-15 ESV


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Monday, October 31, 2011

Dream, let your magic and genius bring your actions and dreams to life


"Whatever you do, or dream you can, begin it.

Boldness has genius and power and magic in it."

~Goethe

How fast a month comes to and end.  The seasons in the northeast where I live come pretty fast, the nice thing about Pittsburgh is we get all the seasons.

Fall came and went pretty fast.  But the magic in leaves turning to bronze, gold and yellow.  It is a painting when you drive past our mountains and hills and see the trees in all their glory.

But alas that is gone.  Now the leaves cling to the trees just waiting for the next strong wind to release them from the tree.

Soon the canvas of the ground will become white with snow on a long term basis and the rolling hills will have that blanket of snow covering them where green and fall leaves once rolled.

That is the northeast seasons.  Now in Florida and in the southwest you have more heat, possibility one season and sometimes people yearn for that.  They get the car and they travel to those climates because it feels good to be warm, to stay warm.  Perhaps that will be me one day.

I do love the northeast though and I do love the seasons as they change.

Does winter dream of fall?  Does it cherish the cold, knowing that its time shall soon come.

Does spring enjoy the path of the sun and know that the warmer temperatures will help the spring flowers and grass to grow.  Does spring dream?

Everyone dreams of something better, a passion comes forth and grows inside for something new and something better to come out of those dreams.

With genius, and power and magic creates that boldness that says 'yes I can and I will, I do so that this dream becomes closer.

How many people dream but don't allow the magic to come and quit just before they had that breakthrough.

How many fall short because they feel powerless or lack understanding and they also quit much to early.

Dreaming is just thoughts and day dreams that idle our magic and genius, if we do not allow them to flow with energy and passion for its development.

Dream big, I often close with that and share with you the video that asks you to laugh your cares away, to see the beauty in all around yourself.

It asks you to pray, because troubles do come our way.

But dream big and take your passion and lift it up.

With boldness, with power and with genius.

Dream Big

 


 

Stay Hungry ~ Stay Foolish

Don't allow another to lead you into mediocrity, don't let them say your not good enough, or it won't happen.

Stay hungry for that dream to come true.

Stay foolish to see your dream through no matter how many people doubt you.

Dreams come true everday.

Let your dream find its day with you.

 

Dream Big ~ Laugh Often ~ Smile and Love Always.


Smiles from me sent your way.... today and always : )


10/31/11


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Sunday, October 30, 2011

New days arisen ~ Making a Difference with what we have


A wise woman who was traveling in the

mountains found a precious stone in a stream.

The next day she met another traveler who was hungry,

and the wise woman opened her bag to share her food.

The hungry traveler saw the precious stone and

asked the woman to give it to him.

She did so without hesitation.

The traveler left, rejoicing in his good fortune.

He knew the stone was worth enough to give him

security for a lifetime. But a few days later he came back

to return the stone to the wise woman.


"I've been thinking," he said, "I know how valuable the

stone is, but I give it back in the hope that

you can give me something even more precious.


Give me what you have within you that

enabled you to give me the stone."


'The Wise Woman's Stone'

Author Unknown



How often do we think that our possessions of external nature are above the value of our internal possessions.


No its not what you have on the outside that matters most to others sometimes, no most of the time its the inside stuff that matters most.

The kindness we can give.  The love we can show.  The laughter we can share. These are the things that can give true value to another persons life.

So give that smile to another they will indeed appreciate it.

Give that kind word or compliment to that mother handling her obstacles that arise and still makes time to love her children and keep a roof with just her efforts.

Give that encouragement to the hurting soul that maybe lost a loved, as they passed on, or struggles to provide for his family in a world of uncertainty.

Give whats on the inside and share with those on the outside.

It costs little.  It is just your time, your effort that your spending, but like the 'Woman with the Stone' it can be life changing.

A month is coming to a close.  A new day is coming to light, a new set of hours, of minutes, of  seconds to make a difference.

Its yours.....this new day....of what will you do with it?

I close with this quote:


Every morning is a fresh beginning.

Every day is the world made new.

Today is a new day. Today is my world made new.

I have lived all my life up to this moment, to come to this day.

This moment--this day--is as good as any moment in all eternity.

I shall make of this day--each moment of this day--a heaven on earth.

This is my day of opportunity.


~Dan Custer

This new day - its all yours.  What will you choose to share?

What do you have on the inside that costs little or nothing but can empower a spirit far beyond your dreams.

Your up, its your turn now.   : )

You are a legend.  Just one like you.  Your dreams, goals and aspirations await the future.  The history of your life will be written.

Dream Big ~ Laugh Often ~ Smile and Love Always.

Smiles from me sent your way.... today and always : )


10/30/11


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