Bringing about change to someone who needs it.
Enlightening has to take place with a downtrodden spirit. We can watch and do nothing or we can embrace certain steps along the way.
It can be as simple as sharing a smile, embracing the person with direct and sincere attention. Giving that person a chance to vent and find hope not just desperation and loss.
When it is a social condition, social attention is needed.
When it is an addiction condition social attention is needed.
When it is a medical condition, social attention is needed.
It goes with out saying that medical or professional attention is important to be given but this the one on one for those who have a loved one or maybe it is their own being that needs this support.
We are all in this together.
We are all at one time or another in need of an ear, a kind spirit and soul and the human interaction that we can crave.
Hope vs Sadness.
Sadness is at most a enabler for the depressed. It is reactive not proactive.
Hope is defined as a feeling of expectation and desire for a certain thing to happen and a feeling of trust.
Hope is needed when we walk through a problem. I love the quote and statement that when you are "going through hell in a situation you don't stop, you keep moving forward."
When you stop you linger, you adapt to the situation instead of the solution, or a solution at best.
When you keep moving you move then evaluate your progress and move forward.
Moving is progress, of course it goes with out saying that you have to know what you want and move towards that goal. Not a dream, a goal with a plan. A goal with a plan with purpose.
What is the purpose? What is the desired outcome? What hunger do you have to receive and arrive at that desired outcome? What matters most to you, your family, your children or getting a temporary fix?
We do things every day for pleasure and to avoid pain.
But if the thing we do for pleasure commits ourselves or our loved ones to pain that what is the end game?
Loss for sure, sadness you bet and death is possible.
Embracing with the eyes, with the heart, with the words of love not condemnation but love is what will achieve your goal and thiers.
Enabling just gets you into the mad cycle of sadness, feeling sorry and allowing no dream, no goal and no real plan for redemption and success.
Choose wisely
Love always.
Dream Bigger and plan and move and adjust and survive.
Be aware
Be strong
Be diligent
Be filled with the desire and hunger to breathe and move forward.
Share kindness and share a smile!
Embrace always, smile forever and share united.
Victor V Yakin
victoryakin@gmail.com
05 / 28 / 2020
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